When you want to break up with dating

If you’ve been in the dating game as long as I have then it’s likely you’ll have experienced feeling demotivated or as I refer to it ‘dating fatigue’ at some point or another. Until recently I was totally fatigued with dating and this feeling lasted for quite a while. I can report I’ve recently feltContinue reading “When you want to break up with dating”

Blue Therapy: Addressing The Issues

Whether Blue Therapy is a piece of fact or fiction, the cultural relevance of the online miniseries cannot be denied. Blue Therapy uses the context of a “therapy session” to address the issues plaguing modern relationships. No stranger to “trash” guilt pleasure like entertainment, Blue Therapy and provides a reflection of modern relationships and attemptsContinue reading “Blue Therapy: Addressing The Issues”

The cats out of the bag

When I first heard the term ‘Catfish’ I remember being baffled that it was even a thing. When I finally got round to watching a couple of episodes of the show I was struck by how pitiful some of the catfishers seemed to be. I was honestly shocked and a little saddened that there wereContinue reading “The cats out of the bag”

Argue With No One Else But You

As much as we’d love for our relationship to always be completely copacetic and devoid of any disagreements, with the way life is and stuff it throws at us we can sometimes feel like we’re stuck recreating John Legends’s ordinary people. Arguments to a certain extent are normal and it’s unrealistic to believe you andContinue reading “Argue With No One Else But You”

Drawing Boundaries

I’m sure you’ll all agree that it’s so exciting that lockdown 3.0 is finally starting to come to an end. That, coupled with the arrival of Spring, the warmer days and the longer nights, and I don’t know about you, but recently I’ve been feeling quite exhilarated. For me that exhilaration has translated into wantingContinue reading “Drawing Boundaries”

Miss(ed) Independent

🎶She got her own thingThat’s why I love herMiss Independent🎵 I am a self identified Independent Woman 🎵throw your hands up at me🎶, the shoes on my feet (not that there’s much reason to wear shoes at the moment) the clothes I’m wearing, the house I live in, and the car I’m driving, I boughtContinue reading “Miss(ed) Independent”

Keeping The Romance Throughout The Rona

Happy Valentine’s Day to all my couples, throuples and polygamous parings. With the lack of a dating season and restaurants and borders closed, Valentine’s Day 2021 may feel different to the previous years. This time last year coronavirus was on the horizon – a month before the national lockdown – Valentine’s Day was anomaly inContinue reading “Keeping The Romance Throughout The Rona”

Protect Platonic Friendships

Platonic – a relationship marked by the absence of romance or sex – Urban Dictionary In an era of sexual liberty and casual sex with friends, I feel like I’m witnessing the end of true platonic friendships. There’s a common misconception that there’s sexual tension underpinning all friendships between men and women. Certain individuals tendContinue reading “Protect Platonic Friendships”

First Christmas

This is the first Christmas I am spending with my boyfriend’s parents. Last year I decided to skip it because I thought it was too soon into us dating, however this year I’ve decided to join them for our first major holiday together. Thankfully, me and his parents already have a good rapport so I’mContinue reading “First Christmas”

CHRISTMAS DATING TRENDS WE WISH THE GRINCH WOULD STEAL

With December fast approaching and not much else to look forward to, I’ve been allowing myself to get into the Christmas spirit a little early this year. I’ve watched Jingle Jangle, I’ve re-downloaded Mariah Carey’s classic to my iPhone and I’ve bought all my decorations. There are so many things I love about the festiveContinue reading “CHRISTMAS DATING TRENDS WE WISH THE GRINCH WOULD STEAL”